ho trovato questo nel sito dei Nightwish... no comment! Specialmente perchè a fare l'intervista è stato il Metal Heart! Vergogna vergogna...
Godetevela! In alcuni punti è molto spassosa!
with her sympathic smile the finnish vocalist react, as we ask her on the bar of a kölner hotel, if she want to talk with us about the sex. "why not?", was her answer. we adjourned to an canny bar and start an open, truely and adult talk about the famous topic.
metal heart: can you remember your first time
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tarja: it was with my first real boyfriend. i was nearly 17 years at this time. he was 5 years older than me and had collected many experiences before. but the different experiences doesn't matter him. we stayed together for a few month till it happend. he don't want to me and waited till i feel up to do it. even now i find it very, very wonderful when i think back. i can say that i had many luck with him. he was an amazing first boyfriend - like you imagine him.
metal heart: what do you especially like on sex
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tarja:If you can trust each other. If you don't have to be afraid that you will be misunderstood while doing it and you know your partner well. and when you love him besides, of course. only in this way has "making love" deserve this description. and only in this way its a very intensive experience, in which you can totally abandon yourself. it is an undescribeable feeling to realize that you'll be together with somebody for a while and you love him always more. you wake up and think, you can love nobody stonger and only one week later you feel more for exactly this person. that's wonderful and makes the fun of sex more special.
metal heart: what do you don't like on sex
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tarja:if you don't really know your partner and you feel nothing for him. i'm out of this age in which you have the need to collect such experiences. although i don't had an one-night-stand i had some shorter affairs from time to time. but this affairs don't fulfil me and have had everytime a bitter aftertaste and they more frustrated me and maked me sad than they give something to me. i draw the conclusion for myself, that i cant await anything more from such affairs. you don't know your partner and you don't feel anything for him. under such conditions sex can't be fullfilling, because the right feelings doesn't exist. so the act itself will be reduced of something very mechanical. and this is really not beautiful.
metal heart: what kind of underwear do you prefere by men
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tarja: oh a nice topic! anyway i like simple wear. men who think that they look pretty in pink tangas i find laughable. generally tangas don't fit to men. unfortunately you can often see thin on the beach. this are men, who think they are the most amazing ones. normally i like a little more formfitting dark-blue or black slips.
metal heart: which underwear do you wear
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tarja: mostely black one. i have very light skin and on this black looks the best. when i get some sun-brown i sometimes like red or white. furthermore i like string-tangas because you nearly can't see them under trouthers. i don't think that i have the right figure to wear it, but they are simple discreet and affect better under your cloth. also i like feminine things with lot of lace. in argentina the women wear a lot of female wear. in finland it doesn't matter so much. because of that i buy my underwear only in argentina, there you got the most beautiful.
metal heart: could you imagine sex with a woman
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tarja: good question. i think the idea that 2 women have sex with each other is more erotic for everybody than the idea of 2 man with each other. definitaly there are pretty women you find erotic, although you don't stand on women. but i can't really imagine this. my last boyfriend, with wich i was together before my man would have a night with a second woman. in this time i was thinking very long about if i can do it. because i loved him i would make his wish come true. on the other hand the imagine to share him with another woman wasn't definitely not ok for me. at any time his wish became a very big problem for us.
metal heart: could you imagine sex with 2 men
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tarja: no! definitely not! if i'll be ardent of one man i only want him and no other one besides. as i go to university at the age of 19 there were a lot of girls who meet with more than one man at the same time. a few of them had also tried to plead me that i will come with them, but this wasn't a thing for me. i was never been on such partys. that i can't imagine to look at 2 man while doing it shouldn't mean that i have something against gays. far from it some of my best friends are gay and i like to be together with them because you can go shopping with them very well and they often think like women. i know to overassess this!
metal heart: what do you think about porn-films
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tarja: i saw many of them in tourbusses. male musicians have the attribute that they have to watch it at any time. i don't have something against it, i must even confess that i own one for myself. but in the tourbus isn't the right atmosphere for it. porn-films are, if any, a thing for very private moments with your partner. and then the aesthetics plays a huge role. if the actors and the szenes aren't aesthetic, a porn-film fastly gets scuzzy.
metal heart: what do you think about prostitutes
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tarja: this women often were abused and coerced to prostitution against their will. i think thats not nice. especially in argentina such women respiting a poor and hopeless existence. such things mustn't be. i see prostitutes as a kind of service and they schould get a better esteem. they offer something like other service providers. because of that they should be treat and esteemed in the same legal and social way
